Talking to Partners about ED, Viagra
Erectile dysfunction is one of the most difficult topics for a man to speak of, but it is incredibly important if you are in a relationship to share your condition and your feelings about it. However, it can be scary, embarrassing, and more, but this article will help you realize the important of doing it, give you the courage to open up, and tell you how to go about it.
Why You Must Speak to Your Partner about ED
When a man is in a committed relationship, his erection isn't just his. Sexual activity is important for both people in the relationship, so being open about those parts of your life and body is an essential part of a healthy relationship. Your partner has an interest in it too!
History has shown that men who don't share with their partner what is happening risk ruining their relationship. Men with ED tend to shy away from sexual activity, leaving their better halves confused and anxious about what is going on. The partner might assume it is an issue of sexual interest, that they are not attractive enough, or even that, rather than it just being an erection issue, the man with ED is cheating - having an affair.
These anxieties can creep into other aspects of the relationship. Indeed, if you can't share a simple medical condition with your partner, how much trust is really in that couple?
Finding the Courage
A man is more than an erection, and any person worth being with values you for more than your sexual ability. They care about your health - and, make no mistake, ED is a health issue - as well as your happiness. Nobody will judge you over an issue of health, and both you and your partner will be most interested in making sure you are physically okay and helping you to overcome it. Fix it as a pack, not as a lone wolf.
Keep in mind, most men struggle with erections at some point in their lives. Admitting the issue is the first step to solving it. Admit it to yourself, tell your partner, and then find a treatment option. Moral support can make it easier to try that first Viagra.
What to Say
Approach it as you would any other important issue.
“Honey, I have something I need to talk about. I think I have ED. I want to get medical help (Viagra) and I just need to know you are with me on this.” Get your feelings in the open and they can't control you.
Viagra: As Good as ED Treatment Gets
You can't think of erectile dysfunction without thinking "Viagra". Why is that? Because it is incredibly effective and has helped more people overcome ED than any other pill.
Over 80% of people with ED can beat erection issues by using Viagra. Years of clinical testing and consumer use has proven how well Viagra works. Of modern medications, no other ED drug has done half as much as Viagra.
Viagra is also great because of what it doesn't do. Nasty side effects are extremely rare. The side effects that do pop up from time to time are mild.
It works like this: take one pill with water before you have sex and enjoy erectile ability for the next 4 hours, no worries. You get your natural erection, not a fake wooden one, and it goes away normally when you are finished.